Describe myself...this is the most difficult part of any of the datig sites. I am extremely active person who still works. I am self employed, with a big house and a "honey you have to do it yourself" list that never ends. I would love an excuse to put off until tomorrow what I think needs to be done today. I must admit I have been on several dating sites and have yet to find "real." I'm rather old schooled so please don't bother contacting me if you are "separated," still hung up on all those women who lie, cheated or stolen from you, married, under the age of 50---(sorry guys), and/or looking for the 900 sex line. Oh, I forgot my favorite...you work in a foreign country, your wife died (mother, parents wo left you the family business in a foreign country) , you have a child at home to raise on your own, and you write like poet with accent....sighing. I am real and just looking for "real." I have no doubt than there are many horror stories you men can share as well. I'm certainly not Barbie but I'm not chopped liver either. At our age, who has time for anything other than real. In case you haven't noticed, I'm pretty direct and to the point. Time valuable and I don't want to waste it on what I consider nonsense as I have described. I would rather just keep things real, because that is where I live in the real world.